Stereotypical "Society Talk"

Hmmm! People, please don't get heated by the title; it says STEREOTYPICAL! Not you.

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Firstly, it feels good to be back after 8 months, God I am so inconsistent!! I didn't intend to leave the blog like that but I got LinkedIn to post on, also, getting into college got me busy. Yes, I know that is great progress from when I discussed my dreadful life, old times.

Moving on, I hate body positivity activists! Many will agree, some of them promote obesity. But what about Body Hair? Are they okay to begin with? Also, what about slut-shaming? Sounds like a girly problem but wait, let me begin with my story as always.

I am a chirpy person; I tend towards being friendly and lively even if I'm in the worst state of mind. So, on this one very fine day, I was chilling with my college friends when a very cool friend of mine called me a "hoe". How obnoxious of me to think that it was intentional, and also, how weird of me to feel like crying my eyes out. Fast forward to some days ago, I was trying to be at par with what had happened and said to myself, "Aditi he came to you later and said sorry, he's nice and it was a slip of tongue, don't have a beef with him over this" and I was friendly again (big mistake). He had different plans though and they weren't cool. I hadn't got my upper lips waxed and oh my god, I didn't know it was such a huge deal until that day. Obviously, bro had to remind me of it and so he did, laughing in front of everyone.

I wish I could radiate my feelings but going ahead, I maintained distance (good for me) but today, Mr. had to talk about how my arm hair were annoying and guess what, he was the one to sit next to me for I don't know what reason. The fact that it was body acne and not the hair made me laugh inside. The fact that he said it again in front of people is funny. The fact that all three times, none of the friends bothered to intervene is intriguing. The girls were there the first two times. I wonder what they go through with this guy. I don't know about them but I can predict the future and tell you that he is dead for me.

So, is body hair a PROBLEM? Don't you have a beard? God gave me some hair too, can't help it!! The fact that it's not a girl's problem but a societal problem makes me furious. None of the girls intervened, ever.

So much for an opaque friendship? Trust me, I didn't want to write this, but there's a limit to what you can bear.

Just to be clear, I don't hate men and such bros cannot become one, which makes me add that a new person was sitting in the same group. HE made sure that I was okay, I cried on a bus, after all, what can a human do to reciprocate such friendships? This blog remarks that SHUTUP if you see someone's flaws, they see it too! The last thing any person needs is someone coming up and announcing their imperfections no matter with or without the presence of other people.

That's it for today, until next time! <3