Are Sacrifices Good or Bad?

You know, people make a lot of sacrifices in their lives, and we teenagers make most of them. Well, sacrificing parties, relationships, internships et cetera. Happiness is needed in life and so are sacrifices. Now I know my blogs are kinda depressing but so is this youth haha. I could write a blog about this generation being a parent but that would certainly be more disastrous so hear me out once more today. Sacrifices aren't necessarily the ones which make us sad, there are some which bring us our joy back. l have been reading this book called Bubblegums and Candies and I am indeed fascinated. Firstly, because it's the first book that I've read so far and secondly because I have no idea what it is precisely about. I got my tarot reading done today, I know how weird it might sound to some people (actually most of y'all) but I feel it's a part of my spirituality and not everyone can accept it. I am interacting so much in this particular blog because I do feel it is an area of improvement, isn't it? (Let me know in the comments)

So there are a lot of things that happened in the past 2 months, both good and bad. For example, I got my board's result and it was just satisfactory, I got a good rank so I know I'm not going to cry for college, and also my friends ditched me, yay. Many of you know me and you know how easy it is for me to lose friends, I can even make a movie titled 'How to Lose a Friend in 10 Days' but it wasn't my fault so I won't give in. I do feel my selection of friends is quite absurd and it's no surprise.

Now let's talk about happiness and sacrifices. Many of you are happy (i sincere hope) and many of you want to die probably (stay there!). It's no surprise that life is difficult but do analyse, is it you who made it miserable? And how do you figure out the answer? I'll explain, when you're happy, you don't realise what you're losing for that happiness. I am no different, I sacrificed my studies for mere enjoyment. I did not intend to but it just happened. It's okay until the reason for this ignorance disappears, the friends leave and you're all alone, vulnerable, needy. That is when you should know that maybe it's not the long-term happiness that you wished for, it was just a moment and it is gone. Before making another mistake I want you to understand that this is the most crucial moment when one decides to either carry on with the same old trait or change for good, and that is the turning point of yet another big year. Sacrifices aren't so bad trust me, you sacrifice a party you find out how boring it was later, you sacrifice a relationship you find your true self, and you sacrifice an internship but suddenly you find a better one. There are people, some of you too, who are done with their families, friends or their special ones and that is just fine because gradually you will realise how better off you are without them. "Do not lose a good person but make sure the person you're keeping is worth your time". (This is my original quote do not steal it, thank you). The immense amount of pain that you may feel after someone leaves can be a lot to take in so be prepared for a sacrifice and do not hesitate. Sacrifices are a part of life and acceptance is the biggest asset a person can attain. It is all that you have to do and believe in yourself. I know people are happy on the outside and shattered on the inside and that is okay, but if you try to accept things and find your motive in life, who knows things may work out. Look I know believing something is very difficult but there is no harm in it. Also bonus point, my tarot reading says that I may be pretty much alone this whole year but I still stay optimistic.

That's it for today, until next time <3