IS LOVE ENOUGH?

"The most perfect relationship is the one that you're in". Eventually, you're in a relationship because you find it to be perfect for yourself. Being in a relationship is a whole different experience for everyone. Two people get in a relationship because ultimately they are getting something out of it, it may be emotional needs, physical needs or it may be just pleasure. The fact that matters the most is that you are happy at the end of the day. This is what every person dreams of when they get in a relationship, but there is always a price tag that people tend to ignore at the beginning and it causes so many problems once you get in a relationship. As good as it sounds, relationships are fussy, you may be in a relationship and still not know the person at all. Sometimes lies are so transparent that you just cannot guess. Not every relationship has to be about a couple, sometimes friendships can be toxic and so can work relationships. Ultimately what seems like "GOALS" to other people may just be a pretending game.

These days everyone wants to be like that *perfect couple* but you don't know what they're going through, how many fights they have, or how much one of them is sacrificing for that perfect moment where people could give them validation. It's suffocating even if they seem to be happy.

One must know that if you're committing, you're not just getting something, you have to give back. You cannot always be the accepting the apology. Love is just a term to label that you're still okay with a person's flaws. It doesn't guarantee your togetherness. It doesn't guarantee your future. So if you hear someone saying that they love you, it means that they can adjust with you for they are satisfied with what they are receiving. Love isn't about dominance or a helping hand, it's about forgiveness and letting your guard down no matter what. But will we do that if a person is simply not filling at least some of our checkboxes? NO. So think about it, is love enough? or is it just lust and greed and need? It's for you to decide how you want to assume it but for me, love is a pretty normal word. I can't say everyone is the same, some people are exceptional but the question is, ARE YOU?

"You can best taste freedom when you've experienced captivity". That's how life works and that's how people feel after a relationship. It hurts my heart when I tell everyone about a breakup that they may have already experienced or may experience in the future. A broken bond indeed. To be honest, every blog makes me cry, sometimes I don't want to write because I can ignore the whole thing. Maybe that person wasn't for us. Maybe we were wrong, but did we end up together eventually? No. Did we love them? Yes. Was love enough? No, It never was and it never will be.

Untill next time ♡